Feel like you’re constantly trying to change your habits but somehow, they never last? Maybe you’ve started a few new fitness plans and felt great, only to end up right back where you started a few weeks later. You’ve watched dozens of productivity and motivational videos on YouTube and know what it takes, so why isn’t it working?
If your attempts for change aren’t working, it’s not you — it’s the goal. Sometimes, we set seemingly realistic goals but once we get into the plan of action, we realize it’s not as easy as we thought. Then, we beat ourselves up thinking we’re just “lazy” and that we’ll “never” get it together. That couldn’t be farther from the truth.
With the right formula, you can set goals that you can follow through on. SMART goals aren’t just another habit best-seller that gets you nowhere. Read on to learn the framework that can set you up for personal, professional, and fitness success (maybe just don’t start on all three at once).
Goals are usually these lofty ideas we have in our heads that never get put into action. Why? They don’t come with a game plan. SMART goals, however, follow a very specific guideline for getting you to follow through. Here’s what it takes to make a goal work:
Motivation is overrated. It simply doesn’t last (which is part of why your goals don’t last). Here’s what a SMART goal can give you:
Sometimes, the goals we set are all wrong. What does it mean to set a truly SMART goal that will actually work?
Forget about all the unmet goals of your past before reviving them right now. Before anything else, you need to find out what it is you truly want. Sometimes we have wonderful goals that, unfortunately, aren’t even our own. Maybe they come from society or family pressure, or what an old version of you once wanted that doesn’t fit anymore. If society, family, or “old you” truly didn’t care, would you still want it?
We usually get enamored with our big “end goal” and forget to look at the very first step it takes to move towards it. So, while your end goal might be “getting fit”, how are you going to achieve that? Go backward and look at what the smallest thing you can do is to start. That might be “I’ll walk for ten minutes at every lunch break” or “I’ll do a 5-minute workout before breakfast every day”. If the goal isn’t actually practical (or interesting to you), it won’t happen. Keep making it simpler (and more fun) until it feels really doable — so easy it’s almost ridiculous not to do it (if you find that, you’ve found your first step).
All of us need deadlines to get things done. There is a science to making a deadline work, though. First, it has to be realistic. Rushing yourself to do too much too soon might just lead to overwhelm and giving up. Second, it needs to be concrete. Aiming to do something versus scheduling exactly how and when to do the daily action is very different. Look at your daily deadlines and see what’s realistic.
There are always obstacles in our way, that’s just part of life. The setbacks and failures can either make us turn around and go home or take the detour. Which option do you want to choose? If one path isn’t working, you can try another, and then another, and then another. The only failure is to stop trying. Remember, if the goal isn’t working, it probably means you need to change your plan of action and edit the daily goals. Expect it to not work and that you will have to edit, replan, and change again — constantly.
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The SMART goal framework gives you a practical way to work on any area of your life. Here are some examples of how it can play out:
You’re feeling stuck at work and you’re ready to find something new. Only, you’ve been ready for a (long) while. What’s stopping you from applying and looking elsewhere?
SMART goal: I will spend 30 minutes researching interesting jobs this Friday at 1:30 pm right after I finish lunch, and write down what courses or certifications I might need, if any.
Maybe your mental health is struggling. You know that working out gives your brain endorphins, serotonin, and dopamine — a mix of “feel good” vibes that leave you feeling better all day. Whether it’s cardio or strength training, you get a mood boost that reduces symptoms of anxiety and depression. But how to get started?
SMART goal: I will do a 10-minute walk every day after lunch (or dinner, or before breakfast, whatever works).
If you’re finding yourself extra cranky and irritable at work lately, you might want to work on your stress management (or potentially also find new work).
SMART goal: I will set an alarm to give myself a 10-minute break every day this week. I will shut off all alerts and rest with my eyes closed to relaxing music or head out for a walk.
We’ve all been fed the story that one of life’s biggest goals is to buy a home. Maybe that’s not your story, but if it is, you’ll need to start saving.
SMART goal: I will track my spending for one week on an app and after the week ends, make a list of what seems unnecessary. After my observation week ends, I will set up an automatic transfer of (set an amount) to my savings account. I will review quarterly and align my savings with my end goal of ($$$) in one year.
Besides following the SMART goal framework, these are some ways you can make your goal more likely to succeed:
Check out this article with psychology-backed tips on why goals don’t work (and how to find fun ones you can follow through on).
Additionally, having the right support and tracking your progress can make all the difference. A personal trainer can help keep you accountable, track your progress, and adjust your plan when needed—so you actually reach your goals.
Setting goals is one thing, and achieving them is another. Life gets hard, we get busy, and somehow, our goals become memories instead of action plans. That’s why it’s so important to have support. Research shows over and over again how much it helps us feel better emotionally and achieve our goals.
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Written by Jennifer Olejarz.